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You’re allowed to want better for yourself.

When I felt super stuck in my accounting job that I loathed, the only thing I knew for sure is what I didn’t want to do with the rest of my life (hint: accounting). This feeling was overwhelming and brought on panic attacks sometimes. What I describe below is exactly the reason why I gotContinue reading “You’re allowed to want better for yourself.”

Tonight, I took my fine ass out for a date with myself.

Well, it was actually a date with San Diego. Because, I’ve been called back to Utah. I knew intuitively I would be in Utah mid-January, but I refused to release San Diego at first. It took me a while to trust my intuition in general, and every day I am getting better and better, deeperContinue reading “Tonight, I took my fine ass out for a date with myself.”

HOW BORING!

I’m writing this after taking a boring-ass CPE to keep my license in public accounting. Trust me, I have no intention of being an accountant ever again, but… Why does this seem to be so normal? In the business world, we tend to kill the magic. We squash the excitement – unless we have theContinue reading “HOW BORING!”

Don’t wait for your dreams to just happen! Read this now.

I took a long, long hiatus from facebook… and I just decided to be active again. I needed time; I needed space. I needed to heal myself of the pain, frustration, and limitations that I was feeling. I needed to become me. Everyday I’m becoming more and more of who I am supposed to be;Continue reading “Don’t wait for your dreams to just happen! Read this now.”

This is why Choosing Joy is a long-term game-plan, not a sprint.

Choosing Joy is a journey. Like all other lessons, habits, and theories we learn in this lifetime, it can take time to learn the practice and reap the benefits. Taking the first steps for Choosing Joy in any and all areas of our lives can look like a lot of different things. It can beContinue reading “This is why Choosing Joy is a long-term game-plan, not a sprint.”

At what point do you become the person you’re meant to be?

Discover your preconceived perspectives…

About yourself, the world, and your fellow humans. What beliefs can you challenge? Perspectives, perceptions, and opinions all evolve over time. You evolve over time. It is natural, healthy, and FUN!

It’s kinda all in my head…

It is bullshit to think you have to earn this simple thing in life

How much guilt do we place on ourselves in this society? Really, be honest with yourself. Ok, I’ll say it. WAY TOO MUCH! What is this notion that we need to earn everything? Where did it come from? We need to earn fun, we need to earn love, we need to earn a good wage,Continue reading “It is bullshit to think you have to earn this simple thing in life”

Follow the adventure of your life!

Trust the adventure of your life. The relationship I discuss in this video started with the decision to take an adventure. I met a guy in a bar who said he wanted to take me sailing, and my snarky ass agreed to go to because I wanted to call his bluff… but he actually delivered.Continue reading “Follow the adventure of your life!”