There’s No Shame in the Struggle

As the CEO of Your Life, you get to approach your life in the driver’s seat, right where you belong.

You get to see yourself as the asset, the investment.

Nobody can tie your arms behind your back and tell you what to do or how to do it.

You get to make high-level decisions and take responsibility for it all – including, your financial situation.

— Did you flinch when I mentioned finances?

Are you secretly holding shame about your money situation or desperately wishing there were some way to just…

get more, now?

Do you make purchases when you’re feeling high on a whim and then later… regret it?

Maybe even return it all?

Do you hesitate to spend money on frivolous, non-essential things because it’s more important that you just save the cash?

Does it stress you out to look at your bank accounts and bills?

With constant updates about the economy in the media and recurring memories referencing back to the crash in 2008,

I’m guessing your inner {money} critique is an overwhelmingly loud voice lately.

Being brave here… I’ll raise my hand for this one –

I’ve been on the money shame train, too. Big time.

So when my good friend Audrey invited me to participate in her upcoming summit about finances,

I almost said no.

But then I realized,

Nobody is talking about this. 

Nobody talks about the struggle while they’re in it, they blissfully recount the memories afterward.

That’s why Audrey and I have completely spilled the tea on the struggle – while we’re still inside of it.

There is no shame in the struggle.

And we’re here to tell you why.

Because look – we’ve all been there in one form or another and it’s time we talk about it,

what it can look like, and possible solutions that might work for you!

As the CEO of Your Life, it’s vital you show up for the financial side of your life and not take a back seat to it. 

Because money supports your mission.

Money is essential for your success.

If you are planning to approach your finances differently in 2023, we have an amazing free resource to help you do exactly that.

At the link below, you can gain access to 14 days of free advice from the experts about resetting your money mindset, taking back control of your finances, and so much more!

Sign up here!  It’s incredibly easy – I just signed up myself!

Speakers have been featured in Forbes, Yahoo! Finance, Tedx, The Huffington Post, Mindvalley, USA Today, and more! 

See you there!

Maybe it’s time

Are you quick to get angry at someone when they say things that oppose your views?

Is it because you think that what they’re saying is challenging the validity of your beliefs or your knowledge?

In reality, everybody wants to feel heard.
Everybody’s just trying to express themselves.

Not everything is an argument.

There may be no particular reason why they said what they said. Sometimes they’re just explaining how they feel, which is a different page from you, but equally as valid.

And so you get angry because you don’t feel validated by them…and they don’t feel validated by you.

Now you’re both upset…and that doesn’t get us anywhere.

But (hear this) – you have to validate yourself and be confident in yourself.

And if you’re second-guessing yourself, or you’re getting hurt because other people aren’t telling you exactly what you want to hear, then maybe it’s time to change your perspective.

Maybe it’s time to change your mindset.

Maybe it’s time to do it in a sustainable way. To make it stick.

To really create meaningful change.

You might be thinking:

How do I change my mindset?
What do I do?
What are the habits that I should implement?

I’d like to guide you through a series of questions designed to shift your mindset slightly so you begin to see new possibilities.

I invite you to print out these questions and ponder them during your next break or on a walk outside:

What are the little things that I do every day that I could approach with a slightly different attitude?

What would choosing a different attitude do to my life?

How would that change my emotions, mood, and overall effectiveness?

Would it make it easier for me to wake up in the morning?

Would it make me feel more energetic about what I get to accomplish in a day?

Would it make me feel revitalized and energized at work?

Would it make me feel more secure and confident in myself and what I’m here to do?

These little questions and tiny shifts pile up over time until one day, you can look back and see that you climbed a metaphorical Mt. Everest.

Something that used to feel challenging, difficult, irritating, like a total drag, draining, or even just mundane will completely change for you…forever.

Most of us struggle to make these tiny shifts on our own.

Humans, unlike a new car, don’t have blind spot monitors built in. We need assistance from an expert.

These mindset and lifestyle changes are something that I’m so passionate about – providing clarity where it seems so obscure or challenging to you.

This is my genius. This is my talent. And I’d love to share it with you.

As a coach, it’s my job to provide you with the precise assistance you need to help you create beautiful, meaningful change in your life.

If you’re feeling connected and curious about how I can help you, please visit so we can organize a free consultation and meet each other!

The Divine Spoke to Me

Friday, I ditched my work plans and read Abraham Hicks at Windansea beach in San Diego.

I’ve been fully committed to raising my vibration and experimenting with what I can intentionally create in my life.

This was my full intention for the year of 2022.

Here’s what I’ve manifested so far:

Most of these things I have never even thought would be possible for me or never imagined until this year.

Delivering six masterclasses and having over 150 registered attendees.

An adventure to the east coast and PNW with absolutely no agenda.

Speaking to a crowd of strangers in NYC’s Union Square Park.

Casually running into Alicia Keys in my favorite lifestyle brand store.

A recurring column in an industry-exclusive magazine, Bloom.

Selling a $6,000 coaching package.

My dream apartment right next to my birth city complete with a fireplace, central air, washer/dryer, and a garage.

Creating the partnership of my dreams with deep freedom and trust.

Featured in a local magazine that celebrates entrepreneurs, ShoutOut SoCal

Completing a trip to Cancun, Mexico and back with an expired passport.

Contributed to a Miami-based lifestyle magazine, Just Begin

Hosting Moon Energy Ceremonies both at my favorite Yoga Studio and my home.

Co-creating and delivering two fireside chats with the executives of a networking company.

Hiring my dream Being Coach

Creating San Diego’s premier men’s group, the Conscious Men’s Coalition

Interviewed in three separate mindset expert summits.

Co-hosting my first half-day retreat experience on 11/11/22.

Creating my first online course containing the 100-level teachings of complete transformation

Invited to be the leading speaker for a two-day retreat in Florida in 2023.

Invited to be interviewed on a Miami-based Podcast, Just Begin

Featured as the guest speaker for my coach’s Breakthrough to You group coaching program

Requested and committed to co-create a monthly Moon Daze series in 2023 about mindfulness and holistic-living in connection with astrological energy.


I haven’t yet written out that list before – I am amazed.

How did all these things happen?

​By consciously choosing better thoughts.
Putting myself first.
Choosing what brings me joy.
And making all decisions as the CEO of My Own Life.

I want everyone to experience their own version of this ^^ incredible list of dream opportunities.

This past Friday,

I looked up from my book and was inspired to write the following.

I trust someone needs to hear this.

You are loved.
You are celebrated.
You are supported.
You are desired.

The things that your soul craves,
the things that your heart wants to experience and has always dreamed of,
are completely and totally meant for you. 

Sometimes you forget.

You get caught up in the “reality” of human existence.

Your journey on this earth is meant for you to learn how to work against everything that you’re told is wrong, that you’re told to suppress, and that you’re taught to ignore.

These are exactly the things that are your destiny to overcome and instead, celebrate.

I invite you to meditate on this that I have just shared.
I invite you to journal; I invite you to respond how you feel called.

I invite you to create discussions with your significant others about these topics, ideas, and principles.

One of my big goals for my content is to expand your thinking.

To challenge you to develop new perspectives for your reality.

I’m so excited you’re here.

I’m so excited you’re coming along on this journey. 

Are you looking to transform your life?

The journey doesn’t stop here.

There are a few opportunities to further your experience with my guidance.

  1. Transformational coaching opportunities – work with me directly
    ^^ my past clients had incredible things to say in their testimonials
  2. Be the CEO of Your Life – NEW Course – learn on your timeline

If you feel called and you love my content, this is just the beginning.
I would love to assist you.

Are you CURIOUS but not allowing yourself to explore it?

How many times do you say you would love to do something, but will never let yourself do it?

For whatever reason: it sounds silly, your significant other wouldn’t approve, you don’t have the money for it, you don’t have the time for it, the list keeps going!

You’re always going to be able to find an excuse.

Unless you push past your fear/hesitation/self-judgement/judgement from others, you’ll never expand and actually do it.

Is there something specific coming up for you as you read this?

Make a promise to yourself right now that it’s time to stop putting it off. It’s time to let yourself explore and expand!

Stop choosing to hold yourself back. Stop choosing to let your external state overpower your internal state and what you want most!

Expand. Love. Enjoy. Repeat.

You aren’t meant to play small 😘

Who would have thought one note could change the direction of my life?

The year was 2005. I was 12 years old, sitting in the class of my least favorite teacher.

I didn’t often pass notes because I was afraid of getting in trouble.

But that day… something came over me.

When Mrs. W intercepted the note, read its contents, and looked at me with a look of disgust and disappointment, I was shaken to the core.

What had I done?

It only went downhill from there.

When adults were all the sudden telling me, “it’s okay, it’s not your fault. You did nothing wrong. You have no need to feel like this is your fault. One day, you’ll be happy and healthy,” my internal alarms went off and imprinted my brain forever with exactly what they’re telling me is not supposed to define me.

I was already happy and healthy. I didn’t think I had done anything wrong…up until I passed that note containing my biggest secret.

I spent the next 10+ years trying to process something I thought I had made peace with. Something that had deeply affected me in ways I’m still uncovering to this day.

A journey to self-love and acceptance is not something I thought I needed.

I didn’t understand that someone who briefly lived with my family could violate me so deeply, and that it would create a severe lack of boundaries that would influence the rest of my life.

I didn’t think the high school boyfriend who told me I was worthless and better off dead, would shape my internal narrative for the entirety of my 20s.

I didn’t realize his misunderstood and hurt mother had the power to silence my voice for many, many years with just a few words…

Until I slowly started to become aware of my own operating system, internal narratives, and default habits.

Once I left the nest (I moved from Pennsylvania to California) and decided to start living my life for me, I truly began to see the damage that had been done.

But the harm wasn’t permanent. In fact, it wasn’t damage at all.

It was all part of my quest. My story. My journey – to become someone who changes the lives of those I meet, including strangers on the street.

This work isn’t for the faint of heart. It’s not for the weak or the weary.

It’s for those of us who know deep in our bones that there’s another life waiting for us.

A life full of joy, love, abundance, laughter, and purpose. All that’s required from us is a little bravery, some desire, and a sense of adventure.

The experiences I had as a young woman aren’t uncommon.

I’m not only a survivor, but also a passionate, fearless leader.

The reason these things happened in my life was to prepare me for exactly what I’m doing now – living in my purpose.

And the same is true for you.

No matter what you’ve been through in your life, trust me when I say it was all perfectly orchestrated.

For you.

To become someone truly magical.

But hear this: you’re already magical, right now, as you are.

You just don’t see it yet.

I’ve been on a journey this year, sharing my wisdom. Sharing the lessons that I’ve learned from all my stories (yes, there are many more). I’ve been helping people take back their power and become the CEO of their lives.

And I want to help you, too.

It’s time to rewrite those old narratives that silently control your decisions.

No more draining your life force to your job.

It’s time to come into your power.

Release those subconscious assumptions.

Let go of your expectations.

There’s no need to wait around for permission – because YOU have the authority.

You can tap into your innate instinct, your inner wisdom, your intuition…today.

Just like I have.

If your soul is buzzing with excitement…
if you feel an urge telling you: it’s time…
if this feels aligned for you,
I would love for you to join us.

My new course, Be the CEO of Your Life, was infused with all the lessons, wisdom, and habits I’ve developed along my healing journey.

These past 7 years have been so transformational for me, that I was moved to share it all with you.

This course contains six modules of lessons, stories, wisdom, and meditations.

  • Two modules of practical, step-by-step instruction and implementation assistance,
  • Three modules of introspective guidance that helps you see how your actions directly influence the world around you, and
  • One module of summarized conclusion.

But that’s not it – you’ll also enjoy laser-focused journaling and brainstorm prompts to help you dig up what’s hiding under the surface,

Specific action items to integrate what you’ve learned into your daily life (aka homework),

And two interviews in which I explain and share real-life examples how all of these lessons integrate together to help you become the CEO of your life. Think of these as a midterm and final seminar.

Be the CEO of Your Life is on pre-registration pricing until November 21, and it’s 49% off.

Today, you can secure access to 8 hours of life-changing, perspective shifting, soul-shaking wisdom for only $57.

I invite you to register here today and join the movement.

Or, head here to learn more about the program.

One more thing.

If you didn’t know, I offer one-on-one coaching transformational experiences in three-month packages.

Previous participants have enjoyed support and guidance to repair their relationship with their spouse, transition careers or jobs, work through and reduce anxiety attacks, create more awareness in the present moment, become a more effective and connected leader and parent, and soo much more.

Everyone who signs up for this course will also receive a special discount offer on an individual coaching package.

This isn’t just work for me, it’s a mission that I live and breathe. I would absolutely love to assist you along your journey.

Thank you so much for your time.

It feels SO GOOD to get the last word in…

But this is the HOLY GRAIL.

Are you a fighter? Are you somebody who always has to have the last say in an argument?

Are you somebody who needs to prove that you are right? Are you somebody that needs other people to see and understand and validate you for being in the right?

There are so many reasons why it can be hard to take the high road and not constantly get the last word in. But it all boils down to how secure you are with your self and how much power and value you give to the other person or people in the conversation.

When we live in reaction mode, we constantly spew things out of our mouth that don’t need to be said or are a waste of our own energy. Choosing to remain silent and not continue to carry on a conversation is incredibly challenging, but it is a pivotal step to learning how to control and conserve your energy.

What are some of the hardest things you’ve had to learn as you become more conscious of yourself?

Do you feel like life is OUT OF CONTROL?

Being on an emotional rollercoaster is EXHAUSTING.

Whether that’s a normal day for you or it only happens once in a while…

Are you equipped with the tools and knowledge to manage your energy and stay calm through it all?

Here are some super easy tips for how to manage these moments!

Execution. Is. Key.

Two FREE offers this week!

Today I want to share TWO FREE OFFERS with you! Incredible value, endless wisdom. And it’s not just coming from me.

One is for women, and one is for everyone!


Today, the Women’s Mindset Makeover Masterclass begins! This is a totally free, week-long masterclass featuring 21 women speaking on the topics of confidence, empowerment, self-care, mindset, good habits, etc.

I’m honored to be featured in this lineup alongside my colleagues and friends from all over the world. Truly incredible!

If you’ve appreciated any of my previous posts, events, or masterclasses, then this is something you would really enjoy. 

Delivered straight to your inbox, on demand, all week long. Sign up here!

To the men, tell your ladies!! ^^


Starting on Monday (tomorrow), another friend of mine is releasing a week-long summit featuring over 25 speakers and experts in a variety of fields who found themselves trapped, feeling empty and unhappy, but were able to overcome and free themselves from the barriers in their minds. 

My friend, Vangelis, brought all of us together to create a series of pre-recorded videos that reveal a multitude of ways of taking YOUR power back.

Choosing YOUR life — on YOUR terms.

This Summit is for those of you who have spent years living the life you are “supposed” to live. The one that was perhaps expected of you.

Not your real life—not the life you wanted to live.

And through many years of working hard and perhaps struggling to be at the top, you were able to achieve “success” as defined by the world – money, luxury, status, however you saw it.

Eventually you realized how empty and unhappy you were and felt trapped in that life.  Like being in a cage.

This summit is for those who want to learn HOW to break the rules and live your life, in your power, on your terms.

These lessons, tips, tricks, and ideas will continue to bring value to your life, without a doubt!

If you’d like to receive the recordings for this summit, I invite you to click the link below and get yourself signed up.

It’s totally free, and by the way, I was asked to be one of the speakers! Woo hoo!

Click here to join!

I hope you find the tools you’ve been looking for in these summits. I feel so blessed to be able to share this with you. 🙏

When we put ourselves first, choose what brings us joy, and make our decisions as the CEO of our lives, we start to experience miracles.

Let me know what you think!!

How to appear AND BE more confident

Calling all my ladies (and to the men – tell your lady!)

Have you been trying to find the balance between personal and professional life?

Do you ever look at other women and think to yourself “I wish I had it together like her”?

If you’ve nodded your head yes, then I know just what you need.

My dear friend and colleague, Ashley Smith, is hosting a powerful masterclass to help women stop feeling guilty about prioritizing themselves.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, watching life pass you by, or just uncomfortable in your own skin, then the Mindset Makeover Masterclass is for you.

Ashley realized that she was living under a mountain of insecurities, and she knew she didn’t want to live that way forever.

Ashley wants to empower women like you to break away from the chains of guilt, self-doubt, and insecurity.

That’s why she created the Mindset Makeover Masterclass, which features 21 speakers including myself, to provide you with the tools and resources you need.

The Mindset Makeover Masterclass takes place on October 23 through 29th at whatever time you choose.

It’ll be delivered straight to your inbox. How convenient is that?!

Claim your FREE ticket by clicking on the link below:

I can’t wait to hear from this incredible lineup Ashley has put together, and I’m honored to be a part of it all.

I’ll see you there, loves!